An important link--ways to improve the ethics of your adoption
The following link, "A practical guide to improving the ethics of your adoption", is well worth taking the time to read. Some of it is specific to Ethiopia, but much of it can be applied to any international country. Find a quiet place, grab a cup of tea (or coffee) and read it seriously and thoughtfully (and there are many excellent resources included. You can be more informed, you can ask the right questions to help you make right decisions about your adoption, you can make your adoption be as ethical as possible.
One of the sweet babies that went home to live with her father.